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Just when you thought you had heard it all, author Mira Kirshembaum – who claims to have 30 years’ experience as a marriage therapist- says the ‘right kind’ of affair can be a positive thing, acting to “jolt people from their inertia”. Of course, this wouldn’t have anything to do with the book she released, …

In many ways, cheating simply involves betraying a partner’s expectations as to what’s acceptable behaviour in a relationship.  When a husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend, violates that expectation about what is appropriate, people feel betrayed. Keep in mind that relationships are not based on logic, but they are generally influenced by our emotions. Accordingly, …